• The Real Reason You Keep Falling Off (It’s Not What You Think)

    The Real Reason You Keep Falling Off (It’s Not What You Think)

    The Myth of Willpower: Why Your Weight Loss Plan Keeps Failing The Myth of Willpower: Why Your Weight Loss Plan Keeps Failing (And How to Fix It) If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “I was doing so well and then I just fell off,” you’re not alone. That phrase—and its equally demoralizing cousins “I just…

  • Fat Isn’t a Feeling—It’s a Choice You Keep Making

    Fat Isn’t a Feeling—It’s a Choice You Keep Making

    I used to wake up every single morning, drag myself to the mirror, and mutter, “I feel fat today.” It was my default line, almost like a mantra. I didn’t even think about it — it just came out.But after years of saying it, one day it hit me: that sentence makes no sense. “Feeling…

  • Why Your Diet Is A Lying, Soul-Sucking Freak

    Why Your Diet Is A Lying, Soul-Sucking Freak

    If you’re a high-achieving executive who’s sick of starting over every Monday, I get it. I’ve been there — more times than I’d like to admit. I know what it feels like to walk into the boardroom with confidence… while secretly hating the way your clothes fit. I know what it’s like to crush quarterly…

  • F*ck The Diet Industry – Stop Starting Over, You Drama Queen

    F*ck The Diet Industry – Stop Starting Over, You Drama Queen

    Have you ever eaten one cookie and thought,“Well, I’ve blown it now. Might as well eat the whole box and start fresh on Monday”? Yeah. You’re not alone. That exact thought used to run my life. It’s the trap most people fall into. It feels logical in the moment, but it’s actually one of the…

  • F*ck Your Trainer- Your Lazy Excuses Can Bench More Than You !

    F*ck Your Trainer- Your Lazy Excuses Can Bench More Than You !

    In the world of weight loss, we’ve been conditioned to believe that hiring a personal trainer is the silver bullet solution. We convince ourselves that spending money on training sessions will finally force us to take our health seriously. We imagine a transformed version of ourselves who wakes up excited for workouts, loves meal prep,…

  • Do Less. Do It Daily. Shut Up Already. Big results don’t need big drama

    Do Less. Do It Daily. Shut Up Already. Big results don’t need big drama

    Let’s start with a little truth bomb: The fitness industry has completely bamboozled you. Yeah, I said it. They’ve sold you on the idea that weight loss requires suffering. That you need to become a green-juice-chugging, treadmill-sprinting, macro-counting robot with no joy left in your life. That success only comes through punishing workouts, strict-as-hell diets,…

  • Healthy, Not Hellish- Eating Smarter Without Hating Life

    Healthy, Not Hellish- Eating Smarter Without Hating Life

    Welcome back to Shut Up and Choose, the no-BS guide to actually changing your life without selling your soul to the diet industry, losing your mind, or swearing off pizza forever. I’m your host, Jonathan Ressler — and today we’re diving into something you already think you know: healthy eating habits. But we’re going to…

  • Small Smart Choices = Big Results- AKA How I Outsmarted My Inner Fat Kid

    Small Smart Choices = Big Results- AKA How I Outsmarted My Inner Fat Kid

    After trying over 100 diets and constantly falling into the same trap of restriction, failure, and regain, I finally discovered what actually works for sustainable weight loss. It wasn’t keto, intermittent fasting, or expensive shots. It wasn’t hours in the gym or counting every calorie. It was making small, smart choices consistently—a concept so simple…

  • Eating Your Feelings? Try Feeling Them Instead (Weird, Right?)

    Eating Your Feelings? Try Feeling Them Instead (Weird, Right?)

    Let’s get brutally honest: emotional eating is a silent, sneaky little saboteur. It’s not the burger, the cookies, or even the damn ice cream that’s the real problem—it’s why we reach for them. And emotional eating derails more weight loss journeys than any missed workout or skipped salad ever could. In our latest podcast episode,…

  • Jonathan Ressler Reintroduction – Year Two- Who I Am & How Far I’ve Come

    Jonathan Ressler Reintroduction – Year Two- Who I Am & How Far I’ve Come

    Let’s get one thing straight: the journey of sustainable weight loss is completely misrepresented in our culture. We’ve been brainwashed. Bombarded. Bamboozled by an industry that wants you to believe the hardest part is losing the weight. As if once you drop 20, 50, 100 pounds, you’ve made it. Cue the applause. Post the before-and-after…