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The Weight Loss Conspiracy They Don’t Want You to Figure Out

Stop Dieting. Start Choosing: The Truth About Ownership, Dependency, and Real Transformation Stop Dieting. Start Choosing: The Truth About Ownership, Dependency, and Real Transformation The promise of “easy” weight loss has never been louder. Everywhere you look, someone is selling relief wrapped in convenience. Walk into a pharmacy, open your Instagram feed, or flip on
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The Fat Kid’s Survival Guide to Halloween Candy

The Fat Kid’s Guide to Halloween Candy Halloween gets framed as a willpower test, but the real story is mindset. When the calendar flips to late October, candy bowls multiply and old diet scripts turn up the volume: Don’t eat that, you’ll blow it. That script is the problem. It assigns moral value to food
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The Day I Stopped Dieting and Started Choosing To Transform My Life

Stop Dieting. Start Choosing. | Jonathan Ressler Stop Dieting. Start Choosing. I walked out of the hospital stitched together by meds and luck, holding a plastic bag of orange bottles and a head full of denial. Sepsis had wrecked me, but the moment I got home I slipped back into the quiet autopilot of bingeing
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Calories Don’t Lie — But Diet Gurus and Fitness Influencers Do

The Truth the Diet Industry Doesn’t Want You to Hear | Jonathan Ressler The Truth the Diet Industry Doesn’t Want You to Hear Stop dieting. Start choosing. The noisy churn of the diet industry thrives on confusion, identity, and false certainty. Everywhere you look—Instagram, talk shows, glossy magazines—someone’s promising the “real secret” to weight loss.
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No Discipline or Willpower? No Problem. That’s Not What Got You Fat Anyway

The Loudest Lie in Weight Loss: Why “Try Harder” Keeps You Stuck The Loudest Lie in Weight Loss The loudest lie in weight loss is also the most seductive: try harder. That message works because it flatters our grit and fuels the illusion that success is a moral contest won by the toughest. Every ad,
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Food Rules Were Meant to Be Broken

Food Rules Were Meant to Be Broken If you keep asking yourself “why can’t I lose weight” and the answer never sticks, food rules are a big reason. Rules like “don’t eat after 7,” “salads are always healthy,” “fat makes you fat,” and “you earn cheat days” feel disciplined. They promise control. They give structure.
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By Next Summer You’ll Either Thank Me—or Hate Yourself

Jonathan Ressler on Breaking the Seasonal Weight Loss Cycle Stop Dieting. Start Choosing. Jonathan Ressler on Breaking the Seasonal Weight Loss Cycle Why fall is the best time to start—and how small, smart choices create lasting change. Every year, I used to fall into the same exhausting cycle—and maybe you have too. Spring would roll
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Ozempic Lawsuits? Surprise The Miracle Was Bullshit

For as long as the modern diet industry has existed, it has followed the same pattern. An old idea is repackaged as innovation, framed in scientific language, endorsed by influential figures, and sold as a breakthrough. When results fail to last, the blame quietly shifts to the individual, and the next solution appears. The cycle
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Meal Plans Are Adult Lunchables for People Who Don’t Want to Think

Introduction: Why I’m Done with “Perfect” Meal Plans For most of my life, I believed what you probably believe right now: that the perfect meal plan was the golden ticket to weight loss. I can’t tell you how many PDFs I downloaded, how many programs I bought, or how many “done-for-you” diets I tried to
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The Gym Is a Waste of Time (If You’re Trying to Lose Weight)

Stop Pretending the Gym Is the Answer to Your Weight Problem By Jonathan Ressler · August 13, 2025 Prefer the app? Open this episode on Spotify. Let’s cut through the noise and address the giant, sweaty elephant in the fitness room: the gym is not your weight loss solution. I know that ruffles feathers. You’ve